A while back my friend told me about a fight she had with her mom after a dinner party with other parents, not my own. She told me about how her mother screamed at her, "Isn't Sophia the one that was having oral sex in the 8th grade?!"
This was the topic of conversation between parents.
To be fair, I did partake in a consensual, sexual relationship with a boy of an appropriate age when I was 14. What's odd was that, to the best of my knowledge, none of those parents were there when the event in question happened. None of these parents were affected by it. Yet they still needed to discuss my experiences over wine.
I don't regret any sexual decision I've ever made. Nor do I mind if people know.
What I do mind, is when a group of adults disregard their own lives and begin using mine as a discussion topic.