Heartburn by Nora EphronSo, I’m reading Nora Ephron‘s 1983 novel Heartburn — I think I’m the last person in America to realize that Ephron was a foodie long before Julie & Julia — and the book is filled with love and longing and heartbreak and food. Lots of food.

The main character, Rachel, is a cookbook writer who is dealing with the discovery that her husband has been having an affair with a mutual friend. Oh, and Rachel and her husband have a baby together and are expecting another one when the affair comes to light. Oh, and this book is a thinly-veiled portrayal of what happened between Ephron and her ex-husband Carl Bernstein (yes, THAT Bernstein), right down to Ephron being 7 months pregnant when she learned of Bernstein’s affair and later going into premature labor.

Anyway, all that horribleness aside, Ephron’s funny-sad novel is seeded with a bunch of quick recipes, all of which weave naturally in and out of the plot. Among others, there’s Lillian Hellman’s pot roast, Rachel’s closely guarded vinaigrette recipe, and the Key lime pie Rachel ends up throwing at her husband’s cheating face during a dinner party. However, the one I zeroed in on was her mashed potato recipe. It wasn’t so much the recipe that resonated with me as it was Ephron’s explanation of why mashed potatoes are so necessary to life:

Nothing like mashed potatoes when you’re feeling blue. Nothing like getting into bed with a bowl of hot mashed potatoes already loaded with butter, and methodically adding a thin cold slice of butter to every forkful. The problem with mashed potatoes, though, is that they require almost as much hard work as crisp potatoes, and when you’re feeling blue the last thing you feel like is hard work. Of course, you can always get someone to make the mashed potatoes for you, but let’s face it: the reason you’re blue is that there isn’t anyone to make them for you. As a result, most people do not have nearly enough mashed potatoes in their lives, and when they do, it’s almost always at the wrong time.

That whole bit reminded me of the mashed potato recipe in my Friends cookbook. (Yes, I have the Friends cookbook — you wanna make something of it?) In that cookbook, the recipe is called “Mashed Potatoes for the Broken Hearted” and carries the note, “These fluffy, smooth potatoes (with plenty of sour cream and butter) have been known to mend even the most fractured heart.”

What is it about mashed potatoes and comfort and soothing? Is it that their bland simplicity makes them non-threatening, and therefore calming, to the palate? That they are merely a vehicle for butter, salt, and/or sour cream and we crave fattening foods when at our lowest points? That they remind us of home and childhood when life was easier? I don’t think I can answer these questions, but I do know that a big pile of mashed potatoes on my plate never fails to raise my spirits and warm my cockles. And on chilly grey days and dark sharp nights, mashed potatoes are one of those foods that I want to crawl into and pull up around my shoulders.

With mashed potatoes, the prep is so minor and the payoff is so huge that I’ve never understood why anyone would make mashed potatoes from a box. In fact, since my own mother didn’t do that, I never knew they existed until I had them at a friend’s house and was totally and horribly scarred by the experience. (That same mother made a kick-ass lemon chicken, so I was able to forgive her. In time.)

My own mashed potatoes are fine. They’re basic, easy — they get the job done. No garlic, no blue cheese, no bacon. I’m perfectly happy with them. However, in my lifetime I’ve encountered two particular mashed potato presentations so wonderfully rich and heavenly that there are times I consider rethinking my comparatively spartan recipe.

First, there’s Fatemeh’s “Party Potatoes” that come from her husband’s “Irish-ish” grandmother and are known to contain butter, sour cream, AND cream cheese. And then there are the mashed potatoes Kim’s husband Keith made for last year’s Burns Night. It was my first Burns Night, my first haggis, and my first taste of Keith’s potatoes.

Both of those sets of mashed potatoes? Yeah, I’ve decided that they’re God’s shaving cream.

After finishing Heartburn well after midnight last night, I went to bed feeling quite melancholy for Rachel. I didn’t cheer up until the next morning when I found out that Ephron’s been happily married to screenwriter Nick Pileggi for twenty years. I hope he makes her lots of mashed potatoes.

Heartburn Mashed Potatoes

For mashed potatoes: Put 1 large (or 2 small) potatoes in a large pot of salted water and bring to a boil. Lower the heat and simmer for at least 20 minutes, until tender. Drain and place the potatoes back in the pot and shake over low heat to eliminate excess moisture. Peel. Put through a potato ricer and immediately add 1 tablespoon heavy cream and as much melted butter and salt and pepper as you feel like. Eat immediately. Serves one.

Nora Ephron and Mashed Potatoes 21 November,2009Stephanie Lucianovic

  • Nice post, Stephanie. Looking forward to reading this (geez, I’d never heard of it either…).

  • Thanks, Megan! I vaguely remember the movie coming out in the 80s but was too young to care about what went on between married adults. The book is really good — you’ll recognize lines Ephron later seeded into “When Harry Met Sally.” I managed to read it in a day and with a 5-month-old at home, that’s a huge feat for me!

  • Hi Stephanie — How great that you’re finding time to read with a 5-month old in the house! If you subscribe to the New Yorker, you might also enjoy an essay Nora Ephron wrote called Serial Monogamy which is about her imagined relationships with cookbook authors and food critics (you can definitely see where her interest in making Julie and Julia came from in this piece). As with all Nora Ephron essays, it’s a pretty fun read. Here’s the abstract. If you are a subscriber you can also view the entire piece.


  • Oh, I have highlighted that passage and re-read it several times.


Stephanie Lucianovic

A former picky eater, Stephanie V.W. Lucianovic is a writer, editor, and lapsed cheesemonger in the San Francisco Bay Area. A culinary school grad with an English lit degree, she has written for CNN.com, MSNBC.com, Popular Science, The New York Times, The Washington Post, and The Boston Globe. Additionally, she has been writing for KQED’s Bay Area Bites since its inception and is the website editor for KQED’s Emmy-award winning show “Check, Please! Bay Area.”

Stephanie was an original recapper at Television Without Pity and worked on a line of cookbooks for William-Sonoma as well as in the back kitchen of a Jacques Pépin cooking show. Her first book, SUFFERING SUCCOTASH: A Picky Eater’s Quest To Understand Why We Hate the Foods We Hate (Perigee Books, 2012) is a non-fiction narrative and a heartfelt and humorous exposé on the inner lives of picky eaters that Scientific American called “hilarious” and “the perfect popular science book for a reader that doesn’t think he or she wants to read a popular science book.”

Stephanie lives in Menlo Park with her husband, three-year-old son, assorted cats, and has been blogging at The Grub Report for over a decade.

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